'I turned my wife's phone on silent and she missed her alarm for an important event in the morning.' This is so much worse. 'I already know all this but I imagine in this situation I'd just cry and run,' they wrote.Ĭwfs1007 commented: 'I really thought this was gonna be. Many users like hardwiremaguire, struggled to get past the shock that the husband must likely be feeling in the wake of his discovery. Until you speak to an attorney, don't make a move.' I don't know your children's ages or the childcare situation, but I left my husband and it held up in court that I abandoned him and the home. In some states it's considered abandonment and you will have to fight harder to get custody of the kids.' and hang in there ok? Lean on your friends.' Sno_boarder, meanwhile, warned: 'Do not leave or move out yet until you talked to a lawyer. Start looking into counseling for yourself and a lawyer. Upvoted over 32,000 times on Reddit, people on social media have been quick to offer advice and support to the understandably stunned husband. Left 'quiet, nauseous and internally raging,' at the time of writing the man had yet to confront his wife over the messages given that their 'kids are asleep.'

'The texts, snaps and DMs took about an hour to get through,' he said. He also found she had 'an impressively active tinder profile' and had, earlier that evening, 'briefly considered hitching a ride with a stranger to Colorado.' Not only did he discover that his wife had had sex with one of his 'now former friends' but she was also involved in 'an emotional affair' with a friend from college who is also married and who she had seen earlier than night. Glancing at the screen he discovered the text came from 'a guy' and read 'goodnight darling.' Eager to investigate, the man decided to go on a 'deep dive' into her phone activity. 'Seeing no reaction from her, and knowing her notification will go off at least one more time unless it is dealt with, I reach over and grab it to flip the silent mode button,' he wrote. He had stayed up to see her but was dozing off himself 'when her phone loudly goes off.' Read more Man Slammed For Asking Ex To Bake Gender Reveal Cake for New GirlfriendĪccording to the post, it all started when his partner came home late after a night out with ' work friends.' Once back at their apartment he said his wife was soon fast asleep.

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